The worst situation that a man can find himself in is being stuck permanently in the Friend Zone. In fact, making a girl like you is not as complicated as it seems. There are certain things which you can do to increase your chances of getting notice by a woman and in turn make her fall for you. However, it is important to point out here that, all women are not the same and they look for different qualities in men. Therefore it is up to you to find out what kind of girl you are dealing with and what is the ideal way to please her and make her like you.
Work on your looks
This is a no brainer but you’d be surprised to know how often men neglect their looks. It’s not about having six pack abs or wearing Armani suits every time. The point is to look good whenever possible-have a good shave whenever you know you are going to meet her, invest in a proper hair cut that suits the features of your face and wear clean and ironed cloth-don’t approach her with pizza stains on your t-shirt!. Do not underestimate the importance of basic hygiene like brushing your teeth and ensuring that there is no mouth odor, no crust in the corner of your eyes and if you have a strong body smell, buy a good fragrance.
If you are repugnant (OK we admit the word may be strong), how can you expect a girl to even notice you? If you go unnoticed, then it’s logical that there’s no chance for her to even like you right?
Normal girls hate men who don’t have a social life of their own or a friend circle in which they fit in. Try to think about that loner in your class who is all alone by himself and compare him to that famous goal keeper on your school team. Now compare their popularity with girls. In fact, girls like to be with men who are independent, know how to balance their love life and have their own social life. Clinging to a girl every minute makes you look desperate, needy and like an absolute control freak.
How can she like you if she does not even know you exist? If approaching and striking a conversation with her is not something which comes easily to you, start by staring lovingly at her, smile when she looks in your direction. Make her notice you. If you start picking some positive vibes on her part, like she is also looking and smiling at you, chances are that she might be looking forward to talking to you. Approach her in a friendly manner and introduce yourself. You may seek the help of a common friend here and ask to be introduced to her.
Make her laugh but know when to get serious
Girls love the company of a man who has a humorous side to his personality. However, you don’t want to be cracking jokes one after the other-you don’t want to be her funny man on whom she can count to have a good laugh! Combine humor with flirting, that’s how you will make your way from a friend to more than friend. So while she’s laughing, maintain eye contact and say “Your laughter is all I need to make my day go perfectly” pause and let the silence do the magic.
Flirt with her
Flirting is way easier than what it seems, all you need is some practice. A good way to start flirting is by teasing her over simple things. Flirting does not necessarily have to involve words-for example if she is coming in your direction, stand in her way and don’t let her go pass you. Maintain eye contact while you do that and have your sly smile on. Tease her by giving a sexual undertone to your conversations. For example, if she asks if you can drop her home later on, you can add, “Are you inviting me over? I don’t mind staying longer!” Flirting with her will make it clear that you are attracted to her and you are not here looking to be a friend only.
Girls put in a lot of effort to look good and they like it when others appreciate their effort and notice changes in them. When you see her, compliment her on something you like about her. Be specific while complimenting her. For example rather than saying, “Your hair looks good”, say something like “I love the way your silky hair keeps falling in your eyes every time, I feel like touching them.”
However, don’t exaggerate with the compliments. Complimenting her day and night will only make her feel too special about herself. You want her to yearn for compliments and feel special whenever you say something sweet. When you completely dedicate yourself to a girl, that’s when the chase is over and she starts taking you for granted.
We’re not talking about sex, not yet! There comes a time where you have to go beyond words and eye contact. Gradually get physically close to her. Start by doing simple things like moving her hair from her eyes if they happen to fall on her face, putting your shoulder closer to hers, offering your hand to help her walk an uneven place, put one arm round her shoulder if she’s cold, hugging her few minutes longer than usual until your finally get seriously physical. Take things slowly here, and the moment you see signs of discomfort stop right there. You surely do not want her to think of you as a pervert and desperate for sex!
There are hundreds of romantic ideas you can try like buying her flowers on a day she expect it the least. Buy her chocolates and accompany it with a poem you’ve written all by yourself. Invite her for a picnic in a romantic place and tell her that she does not have to prepare anything; you will take care of the food. Prepare some sandwiches for her and impress her with your culinary talent.
It’s not difficult to get a girl to like you. If you follow the above tips, you will definitely succeed in paving your way to her heart. Bear in mind that you have to be confident at all times-have trust in yourself, don’t be shy and scared of the outcome. Even if you fail with one girl, there are still millions of girls out there to chase.